Mid 50s, find women of all ages attractive, started chatting w/ a woman in her mid 60s at Costco who I may have asked out if not for the ring. Being tall and friendly helps, but I’m not perfect. Some of my friends claim single older women are bitter… I am staying open minded. I am that lucky woman in more ways than one….but I can’t find a decent guy who wants a meaningful relationship….nevermind one who isn’t so broken that he isn’t stable and can’t put in the work. Overall I am very accepting and I can forgive a lot of shortcomings, but still…it is not like dating in my 20’s anymore. On the internet sites, women have, quite frankly, totally unrealistic expectations.
Most are either married or say they have a boyfriend. I was married for 24 years and had plenty of girlfriends before then. I feel like I live in the Twilight Zone.
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Maybe I’m the foolish one for giving a human being who had a hard life a chance for something good. So when women over 60 wonder why its hard to find a man THEY are at a bar drinking. Most men are not interested in seeing a Doctor to get that fixed.
I’m not 50 yet and my kids have been out of home for some time having had them young, but I would never go out with an older man. You want someone who cares about you, not who sees you as an accessory. Guess that depends on what part of the country they are in. Women where I currently live and in their 50’s, most have it easier than single men.
Even if you found a woman believe me after a while you would not live up to her expectations. We are in an anti male , women are the victims of men period in history . Stay single keep your money and rent sex if you need it that bad. Even pre nups don’t hold up in court , she will own you. Most women lose their libido as well as men approaching 50, sometimes weight issue or health in general.
We are both somewhat fit, like to hike and enjoy being outdoors. He and I have shared some odd and humorous dating stories. As for me, I look at every poor choice in a positive way. At the very least, it was a learning experience.
I must be one of those rare men because I find women in their 50s mentally stimulating therefore attractive. Once I can end my marriage I most likely will not date a woman younger than in her late 40s. Older women, for the most part, have life experience and know what they want. The maturity they bring with them is what I seek. They compliment my desire to grow and be a wiser man than I was yesterday. They offer so much outside of the bedroom which makes the whole relationship to be built on more solid grounds.
I want to be happy with who I am and that is going to take some time. You and the women you’re referring to are either paid to look good, in which case they do, or married. Having built nearly every single thing on earth and being responsible for its stability, safety, security and sustainability, I can assure you that this is not a man’s perspective. In fact, if we started giving less of a f— about what women thought about anything, we would enjoy a tremendous improvement in our collective mental health and maybe stop jumping off brudges . Wisdom doesn’t always come with age, nor is what wisdom we may have universal to all aspects of existence/experience – we may have wisdom in some things but not others. This is why a man desiring and dating a woman yrs his junior views it as no big deal.
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Here is my dating experience since my wife tossed me to the curb in 07. I’ve been in two long term relationships that were miserable. One of the women I had known years ago and the other chased me hard until I finally let her catch me. Both of these women were total control freaks with almost zero interest in a love life. I’m talking so bad that anytime they actually wanted to be intimate, all I could think about was how many weeks before it happens again? One is a supervisor at a women’s shelter.
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(After a while you can spot the “bots” a mile away.) So I created a fake yet detailed female profile to find out what the male competition was like. Same demographics and geography. I counted 208 guys compared to the women I usually found. These age 40+ dating sites – whether geared toward singles or affair-minded marrieds – are little more than sausage factories. Middle-aged men will have better odds standing by the cukes in their grocery store’s produce section.
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I don’t know what the answer is to finding all these eligible age-appropriate people when online dating is so unsatisfactory. And believe me, I’ve tried https://datingwebreviews.com/spdate-review/ online dating. The whole thing is a money racket with poor results. I know several good women who have tried it for years only to get nowhere.
I didn’t rake my ex-husband through the coals when we divorced. He kept his car, our house, and all the furniture in that house. None of us are perfect, and I made my mistakes too. But nothing I did or didn’t do was worth divorcing over.
Best of luck to everyone, hope you find exactly what you are looking for. You seem like a right wing nut job. Yep, even a 83 year old retired Baptist minister stated that after menopause the only thing they want is money and that they are no longer interested in the physical side. There are to many narcissists men looking for a “mommy,” to take care of them! Only good thing were 2 beautiful grown children doing very well for themselves. I’ve given up on the search and resigned myself to figuring out how to live out the rest of my lfe in a meaningful way.
That author would be attacked immediately. The odds suck for all of us I guess…as to needing a man or needing a woman I hope all of us don’t NEED a man or a woman, but a partner to share life with really does make life better. Kathy, I am a guy who has an older lady friend and we are very open with each other. She is still quite beautiful at 70 and is newly divorced. She told me that her husband has ED problems and has for years.
